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7 Mistakes I Made as an American in England

Time October 17th, 2016 in 2016 Fall, England | No Comments by

I thought going to an English-speaking, Westernized country meant “culture shock” would be minimal. I could not have been more wrong. The differences between England and the U.S. are too many to count and I have had my fair share of uncomfortable experiences. Today I share with you 10 instances in which I really felt like a confused foreigner in hopes that you will learn from my experiences.

1. Not looking both ways (or the right way) when crossing the street: I remembered that they drive on the opposite side of the road here when I got into my taxi at the airport. It was so strange; I felt like the entire car ride I was slightly leaning to the right as if my body weight would move the car over to the side that I normally drive on. While I would never EVER attempt to drive in this country, I failed to realize that this difference in road movements affects me even as a pedestrian. I will be the first to admit that sometimes I lack the patience to wait for the “WALK” sign at a crosswalk. If I see an opportunity, I usually decide to cross. This has proved to be a dangerous habit if you look the wrong direction in search for cars. In an attempt to avoid the national health service, look both ways before crossing the street.

2. Yellow light does not always mean stopping: Along the same lines of different road rules, here in England (and I have heard this applies to other European countries) the stoplight uses yellow on two occasions: before red AND before green. So if you’re like me and you see a yellow light as essentially the go-ahead to begin crossing, this is also another dangerous habit. Unless you were watching the stop light for awhile prior to know which color is going to follow the yellow, it is not safe to assume that the car is stopping. On a slight tangent I think the use of yellow to essentially mean “get ready to _(stop/go)__” is really interesting and I wonder whether it was added or if the U.S. eliminated it.

3. Bikes are just as dangerous: My final advice to fellow pedestrians is to be wary of cyclists. In my hometown people who bike are usually doing so recreationally – some in the sidewalk and some in the street. Here biking is an entirely different ball game. It is an efficient form of transportation and they are ruthless. My eyes widen as they weave around massive, double-decker buses and as they speed right towards me coming down the street. I have not seen it myself, but my friend told me that today he witnessed someone get hit by a bike and just hearing about it made my body ache. Treat bikes with the same vigilance as you do cars (and honestly maybe more because since they are smaller they can easily sneak up out of nowhere) and hopefully that won’t happen to you.

4. Be cognizant of operating hours: Unlike in the U.S. where things are open 24/7 for 7 days a week, most businesses in England have much more limited operating hours. Stores close much earlier and Sunday evenings are a ghost town. I discovered this the hard way when my friend and I got a late dinner and wanted to grab some dessert sweets from a grocery store on our way back. Our chocolate cravings were sadly unfulfilled as we walked past the dark doors of every store. At the same time stores do not always open as early either. It is completely normal for a store to open at 10:00 am as opposed to the 8:00 AM or 9:00 AM that I consider normal back in the U.S.

5. Mind your manners: This tip is more applicable to Oxford students. While it varies amongst colleges, most Oxford colleges have some sort of formal dinner. At St. Catz we have the option to go to a formal dinner (called “hall” short for formal hall) every weeknight. While dress code is completely casual, the dining etiquette is more refined. You sit in these long tables with attached desk lights, which almost make you feel like you should be studying. Every seat must be filled by top to bottom, so you can easily be seated next to a stranger. There are waiters, multiple courses, and you can BYOB. Something very important about hall is learning the etiquette. Luckily, the people I was seated next to at my very first hall informed me of all the rules before I broke too many of them. A notable rule is that you cannot eat until everyone around you has received their food – something that I wish I had known before I started inhaling these amazing potato wedges.

6. BYOB (with the second b standing for bags): Because England is much more advanced in terms of environmentally-minded rules and regulations, it costs money to purchase plastic bags at the grocery store. During orientation I attended the freshers fair/activity fair/clubs and societies fair where different student groups try to recruit new members. After the event I had 3 different canvas bags which have all been repurposed into grocery shopping bags. Even though the plastic bags are cheap, it is much easier to carry groceries in a sturdier bag. Sometimes when I know I’ll need a substantial amount of groceries, I go with an empty backpack. Depending on where your college is, the walk to the grocery store can be over 20 minutes and it will feel like more than that if you have plastic bags digging into your arms.

7. Don’t be offended if people aren’t outrageously friendly: This is something I learned at orientation but also experienced first hand on my way there. I took a quick train from Heathrow airport to central London. As one would expect, I was bursting with excitement and wonder. The train was pretty full, so I placed my luggage in the racks and sat in the closest open seat next to this man. I turned to him to ask if the train went to Piccadilly and his eyes opened so wide. He nodded twice – silently. I didn’t fully realize this was probably him telling me that he was not interested in talking to me, but my excitement was so high that all I could do was look out the window. I made some remark about how beautiful the city looked, how it was my first time in England, and how I’m so eager to begin my journey. He looked at me with a slightly bewildered look on his face. I asked him if he had any recommendations on what I must do while I am here and he responded with, “Not particularly.” At that point the train was arriving in the station, but I had gotten the message. This man was not interested in having any sort of conversation on the train. After an orientation lecture on cultural differences between the U.K and the U.S., I was informed that making small talk with strangers on public transportation is a very American habit. People in the U.K. tend to be more reserved in public and do not consider a train ride to be a social experience. So don’t be confused if the person you sit next to does not want to be your best friend or offer to be your tour guide, it’s not personal.

 

I apologize for writing another “list-icle”. I promise my next blog post will include pictures of campus now that I am here and really settling in for the season.

 

Cheers,

xx

Zaya

 

 

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things to expect, part 4

Time June 15th, 2012 in College Study Abroad | No Comments by


  1. Expect to carry napkins/tissues and hand sanitizer (sale at Bath & Body Works!) everywhere. You’ll need it.
  2. Expect to have dinner late (as late as midnight!).
  3. Expect streets with restaurants, etc. to be empty until at least 11:30 pm, when it begins to pick up.
  4. (Always) expect free entry into any exclusive venue for the ladies 😉
  5. Expect to say no firmly and persistently when you’re approached (for both genders!)
  6. Expect everything to be closed during the siesta except the big supermercados and post office (good time to go!).
  7. Expect to always be asked the question of where you’re from.
  8. Expect cat calls, whistles, multiple forms of greetings, etc. on the streets.

Random

  1. Expect cars to be in stick shift (if you’re planning on renting a car to explore Bariloche, for example…)
  2. Expect to wait a few minutes to cross the street.
  3. Expect craziness on the streets when driving.
  4. Expect dogs and cats everywhere (and don’t pet them!).
  5. Expect to take caution while walking (acequias, litter, etc).
  6. Expect roads to be long (I believe my street consists of 7 cuadras alone).
  7. Expect to refer to streets/blocks as cuadras.
  8. Expect to get good answers when you ask someone for directions! For street directions, ask “a que altura de la calle ‘X’ esta?”
  9. Expect to see many parks!
  10. Expect to see PDA (between couples, but hugs, pats and kisses are exchanged frequently on the streets among friends and family members).
  11. Expect staring (and it’s okay to stare right back)!
  12. Expect to share saliva (food, mate, etc).

Academic system

  1. Expect class to start late, and end both early and late.
  2. Expect students to come in and out during class (often to get hot water for mate).
  3. Expect mate to be passed around during class (including the professor).
  4. Expect classes to be canceled due to strikes, etc.
  5. Expect to hear (interesting) debates during class.
  6. Expect to go to the fotocopiadora for your readings (and may get slightly expensive).
  7. Expect to go to the fotocopiadora for your printing, fax, and scanning needs (no printer!).
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things to expect, part 3

Time June 5th, 2012 in College Study Abroad | No Comments by

1.  Expect postage to be expensive:

•to send 3 postcards, it cost 46 pesos (around 12 USD)

•there is a fee to pick up packages

•there are strict rules regarding what you are permitted to send abroad

•the website: http://www.correoargentino.com.ar/

2. Expect to see no to-go cups/containers, etc. Which means a lot of sitting & dining J

3.   Expect internet to fade in and out (save, save, save your work!).

4.   Expect to call flash drives= pen drives.

5. Expect to put in effort to get change (once when I bought ice cream, the vendor gave me extra scoops since she didn’t have change for me).

6. Expect minor earthquake tremors/temblors (there have been 7 so far, yet I’ve slept through all of them!).

7. Expect to wait all the time! Have a flexible schedule, and bring a book.

8. Expect the bus to be late (and crowded).

9.   Expect to see mate parties everywhere (and don’t refuse when offered!).

10. Expect girls to have long hair and rock skinny jeans (and sneakers, usually converse styles are popular)

11. Expect everyone (guys and girls) to have this type of bag.

 

Random

12.  Expect to operate on military time (i.e. 3pm is 15:00. Just subtract 12!).

13.   Expect commas to substitute for decimals. For example: 9, 315 is 9.315.

14.   Expect N ⁰ to mean the number of something.

15. Expect to call cars autos, not coches

 

I also leave you with my (very short) video clips from Peru! All unedited, of course, but I hope you can get a sense of how amazing it was there! Parts I, II, III, IV (alpacas!), V (please ignore my stupid voice!), click on the Roman numerals!

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things to expect, part I

Time April 18th, 2012 in College Study Abroad | No Comments by

Here are some observations I made in Mendoza so far…..

1. Expect to pay to have your backpack stowed away in a locker while you shop at a supermarket (or actually, most stores). Security is tight at the supermarkets, so if you walk in with a large bag or a backpack, they make you pay (or sometimes they hold it up front) to have it stuffed in a locker.

2. Expect to share saliva. Always. Whether it’s food, drinks, or mate, you WILL share saliva with others. 😀

3. Expect to touch people. At first, I thought I was doing people a favor by not greeting them on the cheek when I was sweaty or something, but it’s actually rude to NOT do it. And on that note, people touch, all the time. Hugs, pats, etc.

4. Expect to see PDA. So many couples here……lots of hand holding, but also lots of frequent and passionate make-out sessions in all corners of the city.

5. Expect to see streets full of stray dogs and cats. Sometimes they’ll follow you, and sometimes they’ll be cute; avoid touching them at all costs!

6. Expect to walk through litter, cigarettes, dog poop, and acequias. Keep your eyes peeled!

7. Expect dulce de leche, cheese, fernet, coke, and meat everywhere.

8. Expect to not see toilet paper or soap in public bathrooms. Usually, you’ll have to pay for your use in public venues.

9. Expect class to start and end late.

10. Expect stares, but don’t feel like you need to avoid anyone’s gaze!

11. Expect people to ask you where you’re from.

12. Expect to lock and unlock your house door twice each time.

13. Expect to get lost, with your map in hand. The streets are very long and change names without warning!

14.  Expect streets to be silent during siesta.

15. Expect to specify the type of water you prefer: cingas (without gas; “normal” water) or congas (with gas; sparkling water).

16. Expect mate parties! Especially during classes, with the teacher involved.

17. Expect to eat dinner late.

18. Expect delicious food! Desserts, emapanadas, pasta, dinner dishes, etc. are SO available and muy rico!

19. Expect to triple check just to cross the street.

20. Expect to walk everywhere 😀

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