Sunday, July 8–No puedo creer
I’m not ready. Not ready to be here. Not ready to not wake up in the city. Not ready to hear English. Not ready.
I cried on the plane watching the lights of Buenos Aires disappear behind me. Not bawling, just a few tears. But now that I have arrived in Atlanta 10 hours later, it feels like the last 5 months might have just been a dream. 20 weeks of ups and downs. I don’t like how cheesy it sounds, but studying abroad has really changed me. The things I used to focus on don’t seem as important anymore. I’m not saying I’m not still excited to go shopping when I get home, but I’m more focused on financing my trip/potentially moving back to BsAs than buying a new pair of wedges.
It didn’t really hit me as real until I was waiting in line to board the plane behind a giant group of teenage Americans. (and it still hasn’t really kicked in that going back isn’t definite…yet) But they were probably around 15-16 years old and it seemed like there were 100 of them. all talking, mostly complaining, in English and just being the epitome of obnoxious Americans. The idea of going back to that made me sick to my stomach. I wanted to tell them to calm down and quit complaining, but I didn’t want to talk to them in English and give it away that I’m American too. So instead I walked around their giant group and let two Argentines in front of me as the line finally started moving.
But thank god when the girl who ended up sitting next to me responded to me in Spanish after I asked her “de donde sos?” funny thing was, she’s from New Jersey, but is living in Buenos Aires now. She said she was relieved when I spoke to her in Spanish bc she was afraid I was with the group of kids. She was probably the best plane friend I could have asked for, because, for one, she wasn’t an obnoxious American, and also she had been through the same thing as me a couple of years earlier after she studied abroad in the city. Instead of giving me a weird look as I began to tear up, she gave me tissues. After having met so many (not obnoxious) Americans like her in Buenos Aires, it makes my dream of moving back seem more tangible. We exchanged information and I told her she might be getting a facebook message soon from me freaking out with reverse culture shock.
Sitting in the Atlanta airport, I’m already overwhelmed hearing English everywhere. It’s not as easy to zone out on as Spanish, so it’s kind of giving me a headache. Good I’ve still got some of the good Argentina ibuprofen (I think it’s prescription strength). I just called my mom and left her a message in Spanish bc I don’t wanna do it yet. I don’t want to speak English and be one of them. I was fine speaking English with my plane friend because we knew Spanish was an option. For some reason, that was more comforting. But now, it’s kind of scary because it means I’m here to stay. And I don’t want that right now.
I’ve been excited to come back to the warm summer on the lake since the cold started in BsAs, but now that the time’s finally arrived, the cold is looking that much better. But I can’t lie that I am still really excited to see my friends and family. and to eat a giant salad. with jalapeños. and to not have to spend money every day.
I don’t know what to think right now. It’s all just weird. just got to go day by day, I guess?